Honey?! I am off to the Oilboys!

Lieve allemaal,

It’s been a week since I returned to the strong arms of Mr J. So here’s an update of my adventures in Jyväskylä sofar.
Jeroen’s dad waved me off at the busstop at 2am. Of course I couldn’t sleep, all though Ray laMontagne almost had me there. We arrived at Bremen Airport at 4.30, I had mentally prepared myself to have to wait at least another 1.5hours before I could check in but I guess RyanAir was hungry for money so they had opened up check in already so they could empty our pockets ASAP. I don’t know what the dealio is with this particulair price-fighter but once you are in the plane the service is OK and the landings quite smooth but before I enter the frigging flyer I ALWAYS feel ripped off. This time one suitcase was 1kg overpacked and the other had 3kg left but was full… I still had to pay 20 EURO. But at least I didn’t get as ripped off as the guy behind me in line… he had to pay 35 to get his hand luguage checked in as cabin lugage because it was 200grams too heavy!
The flight was fine… not bumby and a beautiful sunrise above the clouds. When landing I got a little bit worried because I saw about one house in 20 minutes and a lot of frozen lakes with roads on them but no cars.
When I was done with a 20minute embrace with Jeroen upon arrival at Tampere he reassured me that there are people living in Finland.

Two bus rides, a train journey and some complaining about hefty suitcases later, we arrived at our little house in Roninmäentie, Jyväskylä. Now we have put our name tags up on the door and signed our rental agreements, we officially live together. (I can just hear Iertje thinking.. yeah but you kinda already did in Groningen =P).
The appartment is less tiny than I expected. It is not big but it is spacious enough for two people to not get annoyed by each other. We’ve got a bathroom, a kitchen, a balcony on which we will never catch a ray of sun and two bedrooms. We only use one, the other one we use as a living room. I don’t really know how anyone could have used this room as bedroom because there is a streetlight most conviently placed right in front of the window. The appartement is really well isolated, we’ve got things like triple glazed windows and two front doors with no space between them. We don’t have the heating on because it just gets too hot.
The surroundings are very beautiful, there is a (frozen) lake behind our building and lots and lots of trees. There is so much space between the houses here that you can hardly call it a neighbourhood. As you can imagine, it’s quite quiet over here. That only goes for outside the building though. Sofar we’ve heard our neighbour cry like a babyseal for one hour at 2am, someone moving their furniture about at 7am and a very angry Finnish bloke at 1AM. At least it’s not the fire alarm at crazy times like in Oslo. The funny thing is that I actually have never seen anyone in the building since I arrived.

I was a bit frightened by the weather conditions in Mid-Finland but sofar so good. Temperatures during the day lie between -3 and -10 at night they go down to a chilly -20 -25. So far the days have started with bright blue skies and blinding sun which make the snowcovered landscape look like winterwonderland. Today it has started snowing and Jeroen has announced with a big grin on his face that there will fall about 20cm of snow over the next days. Snow is definitely better then rain but I am a little bit jaelous of the 15degrees they have back home. I think that once the snow has gone it will be really gorgeous here and we can go on lots of walks, cycling trips or take a boat over one of the many lakes here.

What is most interesting about living in Finland is the language that is not like any other I have ever seen in my life. It has no relation with other European languages (except for Hungarian I believe) and there is no way you can make sense out of it if you don’t have any knowledge about it. In a way, this is a bit frustrating… I always made a point about understanding the very basics of a language so you can at least have a polite conversation at the check out of a supermarket. This time I haven’t got any further than Kiitos (thank you). On the other hand it has got it’s funny sides. Shopping for example is an extreme adventure because you just have no clue what exactely you are buying. You hope it’s chicken =D. Because Finland officially is Bilingual, some packaging has Swedish descriptions on them aswell as Finnish.. this often saves my life and calm my nerves. Last weekend we’ve spent about half an hour trying to translate the receipt to see what is what and how much it costs. And of course we (read: J ;-P) have already made some mistakes. J has washed with fabric softner for two weeks and we drank non-alcoholic pear cider.
They’ve also got funny names for things here that sometimes make me giggle; we drank a perry light (pear cider), there exist such a thing as the kkk supermarket, they’ve got a garage nearby that is called the Oilboys and a large bag of crips is a MegaPussi. I am so mature.. I know.

So in conclusion, life is pretty relaxed over here. We have survived one week of living together without arguing about who’s going to take the trash out or do the dishes and we still love each other to bits and pieces. What makes life even more pleasant is our one hour prive sauna a week. What can you do, you have to integrate.

So far so good!
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Liefs,

Fonzy

Photo time -click here-

ps. Keep the comments and messages coming. I am terribly late with replying to emails (I am soooo sorry Swisster!) but it is lovely to hear from you all!

maart 18, 2010
By on 22:17
My personal battlefield

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The lovely people who have been reading this blog since the beginning of my first adventure to the UK know my struggle of packing light. Realising I packed 60 kilos instead of the 20 that were allowed caused quite a hysteric panic attack that must have been very traumatic for my mum who had to calm me down, because she demanded that I would start packing today.
Ok I admit… I am an absolute nightmare when it comes to packing. I think the photo speaks for itself.

My next blog will hopefully brag about how awesome it was to unpack all the clothes that I really really REALLY needed in Jyväskylä.

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Liefs,

Fonz

maart 9, 2010
By on 21:56
Auf wiederschnitzel schatzilein

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The boyfriend has left the building this morning at insane-o’clock in the morning. While I am writing this, he has already arrived in the Finnish-land. The two-week count down has officially begun.

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Liefs,
The Fonz

februari 26, 2010
By on 10:24
“My name is Linus, and I am your God”

Lieve Allemaal,

I thought I’d start with a quote from someone famous from where the boyfriend and I are going. This quote is from Linus Torvalds who apparently does something smart with computers (don’t worry I googled it too). He also said;

“Microsoft isn’t evil, they just make really crappy operating systems”

and

“The Linux philosophy is ‘Laugh in the face of danger’. Oops. Wrong One. ‘Do it yourself’. Yes, that’s it”

and most famous;

“Software is like sex: it’s better when it’s free”

Anyhow, ladies and gentlemen this lovely man is Finnish. And now the word is out to friends and family I can safely announce it to the rest of the world without causing any heart attacks.. my destination is Jyväskylä Finland.

Jyväskylä is located in mid-Finland about 300KM north of Helsinki. With its 129,634 inhabitants it’s a relatively small city but like Groningen it is rampacked with students because the University of Jyväskylä is apprently one of the most populair universities of Finland.
All great but what concerns me most at the moment are the weather conditions. I know I wasn’t signing up for beaches and hot weather when I decided to hop on the bandwagon but this is a little bit extreme even to my liking. As this is further north than Oslo, the temperatures are not even remotely the same. At the moment temperatures are between -20 and -26 at night it goes up or down what ever you like.. to -35 celcius. Alter Schwede I do not know how I am possibly going to cope with the cold.
Jeroen has assured me that the weather will get less cold soon and that it’s super lovely when spring sets in. He also says that I need to stop moaning about the temp and that I will love it. I’ll keep you updated on how true those statements are. I am looking forward to the very long days end spring/summer and I did not experience midsummer night in Norway so I am definitely excited about that too.
Mr J will leave next Friday which means we will be apart for 2 long weeks. He’ll start his thesis research and I will join him on March 12th. I am aiming to start courses at JAMK as an exchange student but will also have to keep writing my thesis as it doesn’t look like I will pass with an acceptable grade if I stick to the March 8 deadline. This was a hard pill to swallow but hey ho.. what do you do. My new deadline is May 31st.

Moving on; When I go somewhere new to live I always try to mentally prepare myself a little bit by buying books about the country.. not so much about the touristy things more about what the people are like. So I bought a book from the Culture shock! series. Maybe I shouldn’t have as I did the same before I went to Norway and it told me bollocksy things about housewife knitting clubs and not striving to bake perfect cakes. But I did and yet again the book tells me frightning things about the Finnish people. According to the book the Fins are nice, friendly but mostly quiet (unless they get drunk) and not to enthousiastic about loud people (like myself). It tells me more things that makes my raise my eyebrow but I am pretty sure I will prove the book wrong in days. The book tells me nice things too, about saunas in every household, eyepopping scenery, good food and healthy living conditions.
Mr J and I will share a student appartment with two bedrooms (one will be the guestroom -reservations per mail), bathroom, kitchen, living room and balcony. The appartment is in a student building so who knows, maybe I get to relive my Erasmus a bit. I am looking forward to lots of forest, a new adventure and living together with prince charming. So I am counting the days.

Bye for now.
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Liefs,

Fonne

Ps. In my previous blog I forgot to mention that 2009 was also the year I was diagnosed with Swine flue and I live to tell the story!! (it probably was a mild slightly fractured rib after a bad cold)

februari 19, 2010
By on 23:14
Terug van weg geweest

Lieve allemaal,

My last post was a well-wish for an amazing 2009. And amazing it was, it must have been so amazing that I was so busy with amazing things that I didn’t have a minute of free time to upload a new entry.

2009 will always be the year in which I found my prince charming, my very own Mr Perfect Also Known As Superman or Mr J.
It will also enter the books as the year in which I didn’t graduate and starting eating cheese (I am not quite sure if this was a natural result of not graduating).
The year in which I left Derby for good and dove back in to student life.
The year in which I discovered that EU politics is pretty complex, in which Ruta became mommylicious and in which I experienced that Spain isn’t that bad after all.

The year in which Groningen delivered proof to the Netherlands that it is the best city by being a truly perfect host of the 3fm serious request charity action and raised 7Million Euros.
The year in which Kathy, Stanko, Mariël, Kerstin and many other ICV’ers wore their Cap and Gown with pride and the year in which Irene left Groningen and eventually didn’t resist the call of the Island and packed her belongings and her insanly high thesis grade.

But of course a year must also have its downsides in this case a pretty heavy one, one from which the warmelo-kingdom slowely starts recovering, Anneke lost her brave battle against that most unfair and horrible illness.. she will always be with us in loving memory.

So now we are in 2010 and what a year it promises to become.

I am currently writing my thesis which will be due for handing in on the 8th March. The processes is quite frustrating but so far I remain confident that I will make it. No matter what the outcome will be, I MUST be waving with my cap in September of I will not be able to live with myself.

Anyway, as most of my friends have left me all alone in Groningen (only Annabanana is left to stroll the Saturday market with) I figured it’s about time for me to start packing too, it’s time for a new adventure.

Stay tuned.

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Liefs,

The Fonz

februari 7, 2010
By on 22:44
Cheers to a magic 2009!

Allerliefste iedereen,

I wish you all a fantastic, healty, happy and wonderful 2009! I hope you’ve all enjoyed your days of and stuffing yourself to the max over Christmas. I’ve spent my holidays back home and definitely charged my battery to start 2009 with a smile on my face.
Tomorrow I’ll fly back to Derby to make the absolute most out of my 2 weeks left. I know they’re gonna fly by and I will most definitely leave with a tear or two running down my face. It feels a bit unreal knowing that in less than a month I’ll be back in Groningen. Something I’ve been looking forward to for quite a while suddenly feels a bit scary.. my final semester.. and then? I’ve got no Flipping clue. Anyway whatever will be, wil be and if there is one thing I’ve learned this year is that whatever life trows in my face.. you usally come out in the end a bit wiser.
I know quite a few people are reading this and I want to thank you all for your emails, they make me smile a whole lot =D.

tot snel!
Kus,

Fonne
Christmas in diffent shapes and sizes
New years eve AKA Celebration of a new Thursday
Hoek v Holland

januari 3, 2009
By on 23:58
1 beeld zegt meer dan 1000 woorden

And that’s enough said for these photos =D

Wednesday 3rd December

Goed fout
Goed fout en publique

Kus,
Fonne

december 7, 2008
By on 17:20
Groot nieuws

Lieve allemaal,

Ik hoop dat het jullie allemaal goed vergaat.
Voor de verandering is een keer mn blog in het Nederlands. Het is een bezig maandje geweest hier in Little Eaton, maar wel eentje die goed geweest is voor het knopen-door-hakken proces. De maand begon met 5 daagjes Nederland touren met Ben (foto’s in vorige blog). Het was heerlijk om weer even in onze (toen zonnige) kikkerlandje te vertoeven. Eenmaal terug op het Eiland was het tijd om ffkes hard aan de bak te gaan op werk, de nieuwe website stond op het punt om online te gaan maar dat kwam nog een hele reorganisatie van systemen en administratie bijkijken. Na veel bloed, zweet, vloeken en tranen is ie er dan eindelijk.. de nieuwe ISPO website www.ispo.co.uk .

Dr is hard gewerkt en vooral veel nagedacht. ISPO is nog steeds echt mn kindje, ik kan dr 24/7 aanzitten zonder dat het me verveeld en ik doe het nog steeds met veel plezier. Maar wat de laatste tijd steeds duidelijker is gebleken is dat er weinig uitdaging en vernieuwends meer in zit, ook begonnen Ben’s en mijn management steeds meer te clashen wat niet al tijd resulteerde in al te volwassen gesprekken. Daarbij op tellende dat ik steeds meer begon te merken dat ik het Warmelo koninkrijk, mn vriendjes in Groningen, studeren en Nederland mis heb ik een week geleden de knoop doorgehakt. Vorige week Maandag heb ik mn ontslag brief ingediend en ik hoop eind Januari met de allerliefste pappa van de hele wereld op de boot terug naar Nederland te vertrekken om in Februari aan mn specialisatie te beginnen en (hopelijk, fingers crossed) in de zomer af te kunnen sturen zonder studie vertraging. Ik zie er erg naar uit maar ben meer dan vast beraden om er hier nog de aller mooiste tijd van de wereld van te maken. Ben, Anna, Ruta & het aller mooiste eiland van de wereld, wat zal ik ze ongelovelijk veel missen.

Genoeg sentiment; over naar de foto’s want deze maand is niet alleen druk geweest qua werk, ook de weekenden zaten vol gepropt met ISPO trips en familie bezoek.
York Vo.1
York Vo.2
Lathkil Dale
Dovedale
Anna’s bday and London Town
Op de thee bij de duke van Devonshire
Upper Derwent Valley

tot horens en tot snel!

kus,
Fonne

november 4, 2008
By on 00:00
uit de oude doos

Lieve allen,

Everyone has them.. pictures just lying around – hanging around in folders in friendly computers. I dusted mine off and uploaded them on facebook.
Ladies and gentlemen I proudly present – my randoms!

kus,
Fonne

randoms

oktober 8, 2008
By on 21:52
home 1, home 2, home 3

Lieve allemaal,

Well it’s been 3 busy weeks. Work is absolutely ridiculously stressful lately but it keeps me entertained and busy. On the 24th it was my well deserved time to go home again. As mentioned before, I took Ben with me to prove him that flatness can be beautiful as well. We started off in Amsterdam to stroll down the canals, visit the Anne Frank huis and start of some serious beering before taking the train home – there is no place like home. Thursday we woke up early to pick up our rented skip on wheels (Fiat Panda), pick up ex-ispo Roy and start our drive up north. We visted the hunebed museum in Borger and headed up to our final destination Groningen (aka the best city in the world) where Iertje was waiting for us. As Ben went for a nap, Iertje, Roy and I enjoyed a ice cold Leffe on a teras. We had a nice dinner at Humpreys before meeting up with the good old ICV crew at Pand48. It was a night full of booz, laughter, tears, memories, good music and spastic dancing – there is no place like home.
Friday was hangover day and the day Ben climbed d’olle grieze (martini tower). We said goodbye to Roy and drove back to Rotterdam trough Friesland & the flevo polder.
Saturday papa Hans toured us trough Zeeland and Zuid-Holland to guide us around in the magic world of the delta works. When we arrived back in Rotterdam Thom’s grote mensen feest was about to kick off. It was great to see everyone again.
Sunday we all woke up early to drive to Twente where Papa Hans & Mama Plien planned a walk from Denekamp to Oldenzaal. It was a wonderful day and the scenery was beautiful. We closed the day with patat from Schippers – best in the world!

The whole trip made me realise how much I miss living in the Netherlands and how much I miss my family & friends. I can’t wait to be back for Chrismas holiday.

Monday I woke up at 5 to catch my plane. I went straight from the airport to work and real life started again. Ben arrived back on the Island on Tuesday. Weeks fly by when you work 9 till late and relaxation time is vital but is only available at weekends =). Thus, we planned a walk in the peak district – There is no place like home. The Autumn colours and the company were wonderful. Enjoy the pictures!

Kus,

Fonne

Les Pays-bas
Les Pays-bas vo.2
Monsal Trail – Peak disctrict

oktober 6, 2008
By on 00:09